Being Feminist

I saw a discussion taking place at a blog site saying that the face of Indian woman has changed she is all independent,striving for self-realization, financially independent and has her individual choices true but the last line coming up as a warning that "Marry one if you dare". Its not true, to marry such women you don't have to dare you just have to be in love and understand the equality thing.Today women has become equally independent in whatever they feel like but it cannot land up hating men.The word "Feminist" is strongly used these days on social networking,it never meant hating men because when we are expecting for gender equality than how can we be biased for respect.

When we say we are proud to be a women many have the notion that we hate men but its not we are just proud to be what we are.Standing for wrong is different from counting everybody in the same category,its a saying five fingers are never the same.When I completed my studies and started giving my interviews my parents and some of my teachers said its a man's world you need to be careful,agreed but in the same man's world there are men who are feminist and at the same time there are women who are chauvinist its just we need to have a positive approach to the world.I remember the dialogue in the movie AITRAZ by Kareena that when a man slaps a woman we call the man guilty and when a woman slaps a man then also we consider the man to be guilty without knowing the situation we judge it by our self.Instead of being biased we should stand for humanity and respect.

P.S. I am a woman and I am very proud to be one but I don't hate men.

Reader's Affection

I started the journey of reading from Mills &Boons and Chicken Soup many of us would have been but it was really special moment because I did not borrow it,I purchased the novel without knowing the techs of buying a book,I was never so fond of but when i first read Sidney Sheldon I went all crazy for reading and Mr.Sheldon booked a special place for his books in my heart.Recent years have changed the meaning of reading through KINDLE and availability on internet.

Here LORD GOOGLE play an important role,most piece of writing is available on that,freshly I wanted to read "50 Shades Of Grey" it has sequels so one of my friend suggested to read it online (knowing my madness for purchase) as it is available on some site.I searched in which LORD GOOGLE helped me and gave me the book ,started reading but did not love it.I shared this with my friends who were in love with the piece and Mr.Grey but the argument heated up and all gave counter to my experience,so not to end up the combat I left it then and there though I do not like to loose wink*. After few days I went to the Bookstore for some books I saw "50 Shades Of Grey" in hot sale I bought it with a bookmark and guess what I completed the sequel as well and loved it.I realized later holding a Novel in your hand and reading smelling the pages (maybe I am sounding out of my mind) but its true when you place the bookmark on the page which has to be continued next day enhances your curiosity to complete it ASAP.Maybe it varies with person to person but during my college also where everybody use the laptops to make the notes I always loved scribbling with my pen making notes with funny figurines around it.I am not antagonistic towards techs and means its just my love for holding books instead of reading online.I may sound hypocrite too because its a BLOG I am using but believe me dears I first penned it down then copied it,saved time LOLZ.

Getting posts on FB for missing those days of DD1 and Duck-tales nostalgic,I still love Novels in my hand instead of taking help from the "LORD"