Friday, 16 October 2015

Being Feminist

I saw a discussion taking place at a blog site saying that the face of Indian woman has changed she is all independent,striving for self-realization, financially independent and has her individual choices true but the last line coming up as a warning that "Marry one if you dare". Its not true, to marry such women you don't have to dare you just have to be in love and understand the equality thing.Today women has become equally independent in whatever they feel like but it cannot land up hating men.The word "Feminist" is strongly used these days on social networking,it never meant hating men because when we are expecting for gender equality than how can we be biased for respect.

When we say we are proud to be a women many have the notion that we hate men but its not we are just proud to be what we are.Standing for wrong is different from counting everybody in the same category,its a saying five fingers are never the same.When I completed my studies and started giving my interviews my parents and some of my teachers said its a man's world you need to be careful,agreed but in the same man's world there are men who are feminist and at the same time there are women who are chauvinist its just we need to have a positive approach to the world.I remember the dialogue in the movie AITRAZ by Kareena that when a man slaps a woman we call the man guilty and when a woman slaps a man then also we consider the man to be guilty without knowing the situation we judge it by our self.Instead of being biased we should stand for humanity and respect.


P.S. I am a woman and I am very proud to be one but I don't hate men.