THE GUY IN YELLOW T-SHIRT

THE GUY IN YELLOW T-SHIRT

I stepped into the college campus with mixed thoughts and new schedule to make career as per my parents “beta MBA karlo fir achchi job lag jayegi” and I chose a film school to do so thinking it might be different from typical MBA colleges. I entered the new place with a committed relationship in hand but my eyes stopped on YELLOW T-SHIRT suddenly realized ‘babes lessen your beam he is not looking at you’ but anyways whatever seeing him pacified my eyes and I landed with huge crush on him.

Being in a relationship doesn’t give a copyright to control over emotions anyways never planned to fall for him till then, but you see destiny knows how to play. A day went well now there was the hostel ahead where all the girls were waiting for the new girl, I settled in my room got introduced with everyone on dinner table and some became frenz for life so gurls talk started and I shared the big story lol my new crush THE YELLOW T-SHIRT.

Days passed by I got introduced to him first impression was not good, what, not mine his sounded snob and bit rude but you see time teaches everybody how to behave so we became familiar (kind of frenz) it never made a difference, blushing over his name continued. We exactly became frenz wen I was playing cupid for him and my roomy sad naa I understand but as I told you destiny knows to turn the table (wink).

Now the disaster happened break up not his mine and my roomy and he never got along so they became frenz here the table got turned and we started dating. It never started with a commitment we went with the flow without any promises and rules but today we share a bond of bestest frenz and the biggest commitment of lifetime i.e taking the vows………

I don’t know what to say I guess the journey has now started....

Being Feminist

I saw a discussion taking place at a blog site saying that the face of Indian woman has changed she is all independent,striving for self-realization, financially independent and has her individual choices true but the last line coming up as a warning that "Marry one if you dare". Its not true, to marry such women you don't have to dare you just have to be in love and understand the equality thing.Today women has become equally independent in whatever they feel like but it cannot land up hating men.The word "Feminist" is strongly used these days on social networking,it never meant hating men because when we are expecting for gender equality than how can we be biased for respect.

When we say we are proud to be a women many have the notion that we hate men but its not we are just proud to be what we are.Standing for wrong is different from counting everybody in the same category,its a saying five fingers are never the same.When I completed my studies and started giving my interviews my parents and some of my teachers said its a man's world you need to be careful,agreed but in the same man's world there are men who are feminist and at the same time there are women who are chauvinist its just we need to have a positive approach to the world.I remember the dialogue in the movie AITRAZ by Kareena that when a man slaps a woman we call the man guilty and when a woman slaps a man then also we consider the man to be guilty without knowing the situation we judge it by our self.Instead of being biased we should stand for humanity and respect.

P.S. I am a woman and I am very proud to be one but I don't hate men.

Reader's Affection

I started the journey of reading from Mills &Boons and Chicken Soup many of us would have been but it was really special moment because I did not borrow it,I purchased the novel without knowing the techs of buying a book,I was never so fond of but when i first read Sidney Sheldon I went all crazy for reading and Mr.Sheldon booked a special place for his books in my heart.Recent years have changed the meaning of reading through KINDLE and availability on internet.

Here LORD GOOGLE play an important role,most piece of writing is available on that,freshly I wanted to read "50 Shades Of Grey" it has sequels so one of my friend suggested to read it online (knowing my madness for purchase) as it is available on some site.I searched in which LORD GOOGLE helped me and gave me the book ,started reading but did not love it.I shared this with my friends who were in love with the piece and Mr.Grey but the argument heated up and all gave counter to my experience,so not to end up the combat I left it then and there though I do not like to loose wink*. After few days I went to the Bookstore for some books I saw "50 Shades Of Grey" in hot sale I bought it with a bookmark and guess what I completed the sequel as well and loved it.I realized later holding a Novel in your hand and reading smelling the pages (maybe I am sounding out of my mind) but its true when you place the bookmark on the page which has to be continued next day enhances your curiosity to complete it ASAP.Maybe it varies with person to person but during my college also where everybody use the laptops to make the notes I always loved scribbling with my pen making notes with funny figurines around it.I am not antagonistic towards techs and means its just my love for holding books instead of reading online.I may sound hypocrite too because its a BLOG I am using but believe me dears I first penned it down then copied it,saved time LOLZ.

Getting posts on FB for missing those days of DD1 and Duck-tales nostalgic,I still love Novels in my hand instead of taking help from the "LORD"

"luv happens 100 times & true luv 1000 times"

“Love” a word with 1000 of different meanings, I have heard many of my frenz or even general I cannot fall in love again after  break up but it’s not possible because love happens 100 times and true love happens 1000 times it can offend many people but it’s true. A breakup happens because the love ends or you totally not into that person and when you get a chance to get attention from sum other person how you cannot fall in love. Its normal to have a special one in your life even its just after your breakup, why sit and cry for the one who left you or broke your heart ,love ends then only break up happens. So it’s perfectly alright to be happy instead of being sullen eating chocolates. Today also people often think after the break up that ‘omg’ I have been used or remorseful about things, why feel such things when it was a two way relationship when you both were in love things were exultant and suddenly after the break you feel being used or remorseful this is all bull shit. Many of my frenz “no offence” said after the break up that mons “now it’s enough I cannot fall in love again” I told them repeatedly it’s such a beautiful feeling that it will definitely come across your way and it happened.

For me love was always Salman Khan (as prem) in different rajshree production or Yash raj ji movies. It came to me in many ways but the best was the one with whom I am sharing my life. Many ups and down came our way but I guess every hurdle took the size of a bacteria when the end result I thought of him. He made every long ways smaller and happier. Still after so many years of relationship the best is our bonding as besties. Love is the base of any relation followed by respect and trust. It’s not necessary to love a person and then marry, love can happen after marriage too and it also lives longer our parents are the best example for it.

Conclusion all wells that ends well, we should welcome love by open hands no heartbreak can stop its way  :)

relations & attitude

There is darkness which is always followed by bright light these are the words which I always tell myself and even to people who comes to me with their problems. It’s really very important to have faith in yourself that’s the prevalent fighting weapon you have to win any situation and the most important what I believe is also, when you have support of your family you can sail through any waters somewhere its true “blood is thicker than water” .One of my friend strongly believes in this and she has always overcome all the troubles in her life, she always kept her family informed about whatever she is doing doesn’t matter its boys or night out sometimes we other frenz use to feel quiet odd like telling everything to your family but now I realized that she is quiet lucky to have a protected shelter around her and today finally she has found the love of her life who will take care of that shelter.

It’s a saying silence is better but my belief is words are better you can solve any problem with having a conversation not discussion and the best way to solve any misunderstanding or any situation is to fit yourself in that person’s shoes so you will get to know his/her perception too. I started with this exercise you can say some months back though it’s tough to leave your perception and think from that person’s point of view, it has made my life somewhat little easy to deal with things, because it’s your loved ones only who can hurt you the most but once you start thinking from their point things become quite easy .The best to overcome any doomed situation is to love yourself, yesterday my friend called me as that person was feeling low I suggested to treat yourself but it can only make you happy when you love yourself because any relation in not worth by staking your self-respect and when you love yourself people will love you. I may be sound philosophical but whatever I have come across learnt from my experience is sharing here, there may be many slopes but it’s you who decides to follow the slope and reach the destination or run away. What I have done always followed the slope and by god’s grace I have walked to the destination and still many slopes to come across.

“It’s a new day it’s a new world” the best way to cherish yourself from all the demoralizing facts coming up in your way, though it’s tough to get these lines straight in our heads when everything around is spinning. Many of the times one liner are only good to listen but not that promising enough to believe. It’s becoming tougher day by day to meet a happy person, in this so called beautiful planet the beauty is diminishing. In our personal lives even the innocence also diminishes as we grow up day by day. Even compare your today with the time spent with the same person two to three years back the difference will be realized. 

In my college days one of my roomy told us that her dad is a busy person so whenever she has to speak to him she has to write a chit “daddy I want to talk to you regarding something” and give it to her dad and she was quiet proud that my dad is a big shot but was that gesture correct when today we get social messages to have proper conversation with our children, it’s a matter of importance what you give to your relationship there cannot be any other attractions which can fulfill that very relation may be your work or anything in life.

I can never forget my learning’s from my first boss, prioritize things in your life ambition is important but till the time you are not satisfied with your personal life you can never give 100% to your professional life which I found it to be very true and always get into the profession what you love or passionate about its also a big question today that many of us are not pursuing our passion there are nth number of reasons behind that, but I believe in never missing a chance if we get in life to pursue it and it can happen only when we have someone beside believing in us.