"luv happens 100 times & true luv 1000 times"

“Love” a word with 1000 of different meanings, I have heard many of my frenz or even general I cannot fall in love again after  break up but it’s not possible because love happens 100 times and true love happens 1000 times it can offend many people but it’s true. A breakup happens because the love ends or you totally not into that person and when you get a chance to get attention from sum other person how you cannot fall in love. Its normal to have a special one in your life even its just after your breakup, why sit and cry for the one who left you or broke your heart ,love ends then only break up happens. So it’s perfectly alright to be happy instead of being sullen eating chocolates. Today also people often think after the break up that ‘omg’ I have been used or remorseful about things, why feel such things when it was a two way relationship when you both were in love things were exultant and suddenly after the break you feel being used or remorseful this is all bull shit. Many of my frenz “no offence” said after the break up that mons “now it’s enough I cannot fall in love again” I told them repeatedly it’s such a beautiful feeling that it will definitely come across your way and it happened.

For me love was always Salman Khan (as prem) in different rajshree production or Yash raj ji movies. It came to me in many ways but the best was the one with whom I am sharing my life. Many ups and down came our way but I guess every hurdle took the size of a bacteria when the end result I thought of him. He made every long ways smaller and happier. Still after so many years of relationship the best is our bonding as besties. Love is the base of any relation followed by respect and trust. It’s not necessary to love a person and then marry, love can happen after marriage too and it also lives longer our parents are the best example for it.

Conclusion all wells that ends well, we should welcome love by open hands no heartbreak can stop its way  :)

relations & attitude

There is darkness which is always followed by bright light these are the words which I always tell myself and even to people who comes to me with their problems. It’s really very important to have faith in yourself that’s the prevalent fighting weapon you have to win any situation and the most important what I believe is also, when you have support of your family you can sail through any waters somewhere its true “blood is thicker than water” .One of my friend strongly believes in this and she has always overcome all the troubles in her life, she always kept her family informed about whatever she is doing doesn’t matter its boys or night out sometimes we other frenz use to feel quiet odd like telling everything to your family but now I realized that she is quiet lucky to have a protected shelter around her and today finally she has found the love of her life who will take care of that shelter.

It’s a saying silence is better but my belief is words are better you can solve any problem with having a conversation not discussion and the best way to solve any misunderstanding or any situation is to fit yourself in that person’s shoes so you will get to know his/her perception too. I started with this exercise you can say some months back though it’s tough to leave your perception and think from that person’s point of view, it has made my life somewhat little easy to deal with things, because it’s your loved ones only who can hurt you the most but once you start thinking from their point things become quite easy .The best to overcome any doomed situation is to love yourself, yesterday my friend called me as that person was feeling low I suggested to treat yourself but it can only make you happy when you love yourself because any relation in not worth by staking your self-respect and when you love yourself people will love you. I may be sound philosophical but whatever I have come across learnt from my experience is sharing here, there may be many slopes but it’s you who decides to follow the slope and reach the destination or run away. What I have done always followed the slope and by god’s grace I have walked to the destination and still many slopes to come across.

“It’s a new day it’s a new world” the best way to cherish yourself from all the demoralizing facts coming up in your way, though it’s tough to get these lines straight in our heads when everything around is spinning. Many of the times one liner are only good to listen but not that promising enough to believe. It’s becoming tougher day by day to meet a happy person, in this so called beautiful planet the beauty is diminishing. In our personal lives even the innocence also diminishes as we grow up day by day. Even compare your today with the time spent with the same person two to three years back the difference will be realized. 

In my college days one of my roomy told us that her dad is a busy person so whenever she has to speak to him she has to write a chit “daddy I want to talk to you regarding something” and give it to her dad and she was quiet proud that my dad is a big shot but was that gesture correct when today we get social messages to have proper conversation with our children, it’s a matter of importance what you give to your relationship there cannot be any other attractions which can fulfill that very relation may be your work or anything in life.

I can never forget my learning’s from my first boss, prioritize things in your life ambition is important but till the time you are not satisfied with your personal life you can never give 100% to your professional life which I found it to be very true and always get into the profession what you love or passionate about its also a big question today that many of us are not pursuing our passion there are nth number of reasons behind that, but I believe in never missing a chance if we get in life to pursue it and it can happen only when we have someone beside believing in us.