relations & attitude

There is darkness which is always followed by bright light these are the words which I always tell myself and even to people who comes to me with their problems. It’s really very important to have faith in yourself that’s the prevalent fighting weapon you have to win any situation and the most important what I believe is also, when you have support of your family you can sail through any waters somewhere its true “blood is thicker than water” .One of my friend strongly believes in this and she has always overcome all the troubles in her life, she always kept her family informed about whatever she is doing doesn’t matter its boys or night out sometimes we other frenz use to feel quiet odd like telling everything to your family but now I realized that she is quiet lucky to have a protected shelter around her and today finally she has found the love of her life who will take care of that shelter.

It’s a saying silence is better but my belief is words are better you can solve any problem with having a conversation not discussion and the best way to solve any misunderstanding or any situation is to fit yourself in that person’s shoes so you will get to know his/her perception too. I started with this exercise you can say some months back though it’s tough to leave your perception and think from that person’s point of view, it has made my life somewhat little easy to deal with things, because it’s your loved ones only who can hurt you the most but once you start thinking from their point things become quite easy .The best to overcome any doomed situation is to love yourself, yesterday my friend called me as that person was feeling low I suggested to treat yourself but it can only make you happy when you love yourself because any relation in not worth by staking your self-respect and when you love yourself people will love you. I may be sound philosophical but whatever I have come across learnt from my experience is sharing here, there may be many slopes but it’s you who decides to follow the slope and reach the destination or run away. What I have done always followed the slope and by god’s grace I have walked to the destination and still many slopes to come across.